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You should be steady, not certain. That’s your job, as a leader. Anyone who works in a complex environment cannot bring everything under control. If you run a production line, to a certain extent, with the right investment and attention, you can bring that under control. You will still need to monitor it, so you can spot when a belt is getting tired or a printer needs replacing. And you still can’t have absolute certainty it will work tomorrow as it did today. The roof might leak, a forklift driver might crash into your products or there could be an electrical fire. But, within tolerances, you can be fairly sure that a machine that produces a thousand parts today, can produce a thousand parts tomorrow. But, most of us don’t work in this way do we? Even production managers have to deal with the squishy, fallible operators who make mistakes, take breaks and crash forklifts. And yet, on some level, we all kid ourselves that, with the right workflows, Slack discipline, KPRs and OKRs, we can bring the complex world into some sort of order. Sorry to break it to you mate. You can’t. That’s not to say you shouldn’t try to bring some order, structure and repeatability to the work that your team does. You should. We’re all fighting entropy all of the time, so anything that makes things feel less as though they are falling apart will help us to be happier and more productive. If you can help the team to bring some order to things, you are leading well. But, don’t fall into the trap of being certain you know what’s right, what’s wrong, what will happen or that what worked yesterday will work tomorrow. It might. But when it doesn’t your job is to help everyone to dance through the storm. Not to try to control the weather. Stephen -- If you’re curious whether coaching could help you find more clarity or direction, book a free 15-minute Clarity Call and we’ll explore it together. If you want help to think about where problems might be arising in your organisation, try my Complexity Pressure Check. For anything else, hit reply. I answer every email personally. |
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